My children brought home the Scholastic News from school on Friday. For those who don’t know, it’s “America’s Leading News Source for Kids.” Its weekly editions are typically led by a theme, and students are encouraged to complete the exercises within. This one caught my eye: “Hi I’m Joe, I am a veteran. That means I was in a war. Meet my dog Benjamin. I’ll show you how he helps me everyday.”
On the front is a heartbreaking photo of a Marine with a “robot leg” in a wheelchair, his arm slung over a beautiful golden retriever. Inside, after more photos of the veteran and Benjamin, and the veteran and his young family, my child is asked, “how can we thank (soldiers)? … we can send them a care package!”
How about demanding they all come home now, legs intact? I think about this ruefully for a moment and realize that I had spent much of Veterans Day looking at photos of amputees. The Washington Post heralded the day with a front-page profile of Marine Cpl. Todd A. Nicely, an “unbroken spirit,” and one of three living men who lost all four of their limbs in Iraq or Afghanistan. There are 1,100 amputees from these wars overall, according to the paper. We are so used to seeing them now, literally running marathons, swimming in the Paralympics, climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro. And they are all but ubiquitous on Memorial and Veterans Day – the two days Americans are forced to think about war.
But let’s face it, there is something insidious about it all, about what Veterans Day has become. We channel all of our compassion and guilt and patriotism into individual veterans and their stories of recovery and triumph, but we never ask the fundamental “why?” In fact, we try not to focus too much on the subject of war itself (unless it is in the form of watching 24 hours straight of propagandistic war films on Turner Classic Movies, or the usual War Porn on the History Channel). With all the best intentions, we talk about veterans in schools, but without explaining, even prudently, how a beautiful boy like 26-year-old Nicely came to be wheeling around with a mechanical arm and three stumps for limbs on the front of Thursday’s newspaper. That he had been “defending our country” seems to suffice. He and others persevere, selflessly, despite hardship and pain, so buck up, so can you – that is implicit – as is some unspoken rule that one must not debate the necessity of war on Veterans’ Day, lest you offend “the veterans.”
Therefore we never really move forward. We just remain mired in our own lessons lost, every year pouring perfume in the form of platitudes and pity over our most disturbing realities.
Veterans Day used to be Armistice Day, which was first established in 1919 to remember the 117,965 Americans who died fighting in World War I, the first senseless war of the 20th Century. Later in 1938, it was declared a federal holiday and dedicated in part to “to the cause of world peace.” But the return of millions of World War II veterans soon overshadowed the quiet reflection of the previous war, and in 1954 it was officially changed to Veterans Day to honor the living symbols of what is still deemed an historic American victory in the great planetary struggle against Evil. Rituals and expectations then hardened, and were further institutionalized after Korea and Vietnam, when sacrifice had to be emphasized over victory, when our guilt and regret over the 36,515 American dead in Korea, and 58,159 in Vietnam, needed to be channeled, somehow.
The veterans of those wars required the pomp and the reassurance more than their World War II predecessors, and that left no room for rehashing controversial war policies. Younger men marched (and wheeled) with the World War II vets as part of one proud collective and saved their complaints and lamentations for later at the American Legion bars dotting the Middle American landscape. “Civilians” acted accordingly and generally observed the day, as we do now, gathering at monuments and parades, and speaking no ill of war.
How easy it is today, nearly 10 years into a two-front conflict that has left us more than two million veterans, to carry on the ritual. More than ever, we are compelled to treat these men and women as if in a vacuum, divorced from the political reality that they served in a war that has more in common with its darker progenitors, Korea and Vietnam, than World War II. And it is much easier for us, the civilians, to take part in this theater when it is less likely that we would know a vet personally, and when we do see them in the media, particularly on Veterans Day, they are healthy and muscular and engaging in heroic physical feats, despite their mechanical limbs and scarred faces.
They make us feel sad, but in a perverse way, their resolve to “move on” makes us more comfortable about our lemming-like journey through a decade of war, our decision to “go shopping” rather than stop and question with any measure of seriousness the toll it was taking on our country. And forget the corporate media, they’re too terrified of being perceived as anti-military to even suggest messing with the Veterans Day status quo. So they go overboard to ensure the day is sanctified, profiling one amputee after another with no context. Then on Nov. 12 we shake it off and “move on.”
But how is teaching our children that disabled veterans are a fact of life, without offering any greater insight, helping soldiers and veterans, much less anyone else? The soldiers and veterans become American totems, while we condition our children to compartmentalize their emotions – today, children, we will celebrate veterans; we will feel sad for their disabilities and grateful that they fought in our name – and not to ask questions about the most critical issue of our time, which is war: getting into it and getting out of it. Just accept the fact that there are a lot of men and women around who got their robot arms and legs “defending our freedom,” send a care package, and “move on.”
Ten years from now, these same children could be standing in front of an Army recruiter’s office. What real tools have we given them to decide?
Veterans Day as a Decoy
Not surprisingly, there was hardly a grumble of response this Veterans Day when Secretary of Defense Robert Gates announced that we would be fighting in Afghanistan for at least four more years. Nor did anyone seem to blanch at reports that the White House has begun “moving away” from President Obama’s pledge to begin withdrawing troops from there in 2011.
Gen. Petraeus has been suggesting 2014 is the new benchmark for “transition” and is expected to confirm as much at this week’s NATO summit in Lisbon. No doubt the umpteenth “review” of the policy coming up in December will bolster the military’s preferred timeline, which would take the war right through the next presidential election. As I said back in June, Obama would no doubt prefer to stall through 2012, avoiding the “defeat-o-crat” mantra from his Republican opponents, while appearing to listen to “his generals on the ground.” As if to give his blessing, neoconservative war hawk Bill Kristol, donning his military surrogate hat on Fox News Sunday this week, suggested that Obama has finally come over to their way of thinking.
“I think Barack Obama has crossed the bridge in his own mind, he is not interested in an exit strategy during his first term from Afghanistan, he is interested in a success strategy.”
Now Bill “boots on the ground” Kristol is probably the single most effective promoter of the meat grinder outside the Pentagon itself. Whether it be the pre-9/11 push for regime change in Iraq, the Project for the New American Century’s numerous calls to arms, his Weekly Standard soap box, or his new outfit, the Emergency Committee for Israel, Kristol is always promoting war – more war, more warm bodies to fight wars. As a military mouthpiece he is quite good, though no one can say with any certainty how he feels about amputee veterans or the rising number of suicides among active duty soldiers and veterans, nor of the fact the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq have been the single greatest contributor to the dreaded national debt. He never talks about it, at least not on–air.
But Kristol is good at compartmentalizing too, and he figures the chump mainstream media has the Veterans Day coverage well in hand, and is relieved no doubt that the endless images of military funerals and titanium prosthetics are never emotionally – or rationally – connected with his relentless war mongering over the last decade.
If the rest of America could finally resist the pressure to spend Veterans Day in an intellectual stupor, they might see Kristol & Co. for what they really are. They might recognize them as collaborating with the military and other self-interested parties in Washington to quietly extend this unpopular war for another four years with absolutely no input from the citizenry – what writer Stephen Walt aptly recognizes as the old “Bait and Switch.”
Simply put, Veterans Day and its springtime counterpart, Memorial Day, have become nothing but an institutionalized distraction from the truth. A temporary salve on our conscience, and a decoy for the war-makers.
Ideally, these “holidays” should be used instead to teach our children that we can only truly honor the men and women in the Armed Services by making sure they don’t die senselessly on the battlefield ever again – that our role as “citizen” is to challenge and shape the decisions made by the government, not become a slave to it.
Only then could we look at the photographs of veterans in wheelchairs or with injuries that have rendered them unrecognizable to their families, and say, never forget, never again – and truly mean it.
Read more by Kelley B. Vlahos
- War Inc. Shifts Homeward – May 21st, 2012
- The Rape of Our Military Women – May 14th, 2012
- The Hive and the Heterodoxy – May 7th, 2012
- Waking Up to the Drones – April 30th, 2012
- How Think Tanks Think – April 23rd, 2012








mark green
November 16th, 2010 at 1:35 am
Well said, Kelly. Well said.
Serial warfare is a criminal enterprise. Pity the poor, foolish vets who believe otherwise.
theothercanada
November 16th, 2010 at 3:03 am
The poor mercenaries had a choice and chose to offer their life and limbs for money they receive from States sponsoring terror and wars of aggression. There is a greater chance of injury doing logging for example than there is working at McDonald's.
These mercenaries had nothing in common with my relatives who fought in WW2 and helped countries occupied by German and other Nazis, these mercenaries are invaders and occupiers like Germans were in WW1 and 2, todays Nazis are led by USA and UK.
Raashid
November 16th, 2010 at 3:55 am
Kely is blonde, beautiful, intelligent and a strong woman of noble character. Is she single? If she is it's a crying shame, if she's not, the guy better be special because she is…
Rosemary Molloy
November 16th, 2010 at 4:38 am
It seems to me absolute insantity to revere and "thank" the hired killers we pay to slaughter other human beings in our name. Oh, yes, they're poor, misguided kids who don't see a future in civilian work, lured by the lies our government exists to spread–but really, should we hold them up as models for our children? If we truly don't want to perpetuate the horrors of war, we're going to have to stop idolizing the ones who wage it. You can't have it both ways.
Ephraim
November 16th, 2010 at 5:06 am
And now due to the profligate spending over the last ten years, primarily on these meat grinders; economic realities are finally catching up with us and the VA and social security and medicare for Tea Party members, as well as the rest of us, will be the first to be cut so that the wars can go on and produce more disabled veterans for us to take notice of two days a yerar.
VietnamWarVeteran
November 16th, 2010 at 7:16 am
"It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, more vengeance, more destruction. War is all HELL" – Wm. T. Sherman
Men like William Kristol call for more blood – men who are too cowardly to have ever served.
The above is a column that should have been read to the nation on Veterans' Day on the major TV networks.
bogi666
November 16th, 2010 at 7:45 am
WW 1 ended because the soldiers refused to keep fighting. The same reason that Vietnam ended, a mutiny by the grunts in Nam whom started to kill their officers and Sergeants whom put them in harms way. The Pentagram admits to 700 fragging which means it was in the thousands. I knew of 3 and I wasn't even there. Only the soldiers can stop wars. The Pat Tillman is a great example, not for his heroism but because he was a fool.
bogi666
November 16th, 2010 at 7:53 am
Obomber's Cat Food Commission is recommending cuts and/or increased cost to Veterans,for the VA, as a way to "cut the deficit". Common sense, such as to stop creating wars, as a way to reduce the deficit and would also result in reducing the Pentagram budget, which is funded by the Treasury bond proceeds which funds the national debt, a threat to national security admitted by Admiral Mullen. This is not even considered by Obomber's Cat Food Commission because it makes sense and the only sense the USG has is nonsense. The Pentagram facilitates graft and corruption which are the real reason for the wars.
hanthala is watching
November 16th, 2010 at 8:30 am
They are propaganda props to cow the civilians into submissive and unquestioning obedience to what brought these disabled vets to where they are now. Support the troops even if you dont support the war and if you dare to disparage a vet you are unamerican, the lowest of the low. But…if rape is wrong then do we honor the rapist? If war is a crime against God, humanity and all that we say we hold dear then do we not disagree with those who support,engineer and particulary participate in it…especially when they are VOLUNTEERS AND GET PAID QUITE WELL FOR IT? War prostitutes and war ho wars are not on my list of great jobs
hanthala is watching
November 16th, 2010 at 8:43 am
D.A.R.E. to resist violence is what they instill in my kids at shcool while they laud veterens fighting an illegal and immoral war on folks who have done us no harm. In church they praise jesus and his message and only Christians go to heaven because they believe in Jesus while they distain his teachings of love,compassion,loving thy neighbor,forgiveness,thou shalt not kill, love they enemey and forgive not 7 times but 77 times as these churches fall along in line preaching instead nationalism,war, violence,arrogance,elitism, naricssism, and jingoism. DOESN'T ANYONE GET IT ANYMORE?
skulz fontaine
November 16th, 2010 at 9:04 am
Veterans Day and/or Memorial Day are 'shopping days'. Yup. Buy a new truck. Buy a new bed. Shop shop shop. War? There's no war here. War's over there, somewhere, in the Outterbankistan, al-Qaedastan, Persiastan, or some damn 'stan' or another.
Faceless soldiers living graceless lives surrender arms, legs, lives, so "we can have our freedom!" Sure sure. The 'freedom' to shop.
Gosh, remember after 9/11 and G. Bush told Amerika to go out and "shop?" Hey, did the Shrub put that in his book?
Veterans Day and/or Memorial Day are an obscenity. A stark and harsh reminder that most Amerikans haven't a clue as to what our 'grand and glorious' Empire is up to.
liberranter
November 16th, 2010 at 9:27 am
Count me among those veterans who would gladly put themselves in a state of 24-hour suspended animation on November 10th just to avoid having anything to do with this national Day of Shame.
The photo of Obama hugging the female veteran with two prosthetic legs really caught my attention for the following two reasons:
1. The sickening display of hypocrisy from a marionette-in-chief, who is rapidly amassing more blood on his hands than his simi-moron predecessor, "hugging" a veteran whose injuries are very likely on HIS hands for not ending the insane and immoral twin wars in which she was injured.
2. Call me a neanderthal if you want, but any nation that sends its women, the bearers and nurturers of its posterity, into combat is a nation of barbarians that is unfit for any moral human being to defend.
The silver lining to a sad story: The Empire will be bankrupt within the next few years (maybe sooner).
Dark cloud around the silver lining: A bankrupt empire will be unable to care for the disabled humans that waged its immoral wars of conquest and will probably have a hard time repatriating its remaining legions from the far-flung corners of the Empire once things disintegrate (for examples, think: Napolean's armies in Russia – 1812, or the German Wehrmacht at Stalingrad -1943).
EmeraldDruid
November 16th, 2010 at 10:03 am
One of my friends made the statement that he wasn't going to take up arms again until the government started marching down his street to round up all 'the people'. By 'the people' I mean us veterans.
Our current batch of betrayed from the top veterans have already been designated as probable terrorists by the DHS. Congress has passed, will pass or is contemplating passing legislation to remove the second amendment rights of any veteran who is having problems stemming from his or her time in service.
It really is a shame that the people who make all these decisions to begin preemptive wars on sovereign nations aren't the first ones in and required to walk point for the duration of the wars.
Take Dumbya for example. AWOL from the silver spoon brigade for over 18 months during time of war which is a firing squad offense. But Daddy Bush managed to bury those records in the same landfill as Dumbya's drunk driving records. I suggest that we keep the firing squad for such offenses but tack on something regarding any parent or relative who happens to be a pig in the trough. That in the event that they intervene in ANY way to prevent the court martial of their treasonous spawn, that they also be dragged before a military tribunal and if found guilty, also face a firing squad.
I would like to see legislation that would make it law that anybody in congress who them self is NOT a veteran be prohibited from voting on ANY resolution to begin another no win police action so that people like Daddy Bush and Dick Cheney can add to their bank accounts at the expense of all our veterans !
Guy Montag
November 16th, 2010 at 10:58 am
Part II: I’m still angry that the truth about Pat’s life and death has been buried. Tillman was enshrined as an icon while the man fell by the wayside, his parents used as props at his funeral. “The truth may be painful, but it’s the truth,” his mother said. “If you feel you’re being lied to, you can never put it to rest.”
We should honor Pat Tillman’s memory by honoring the man, not the myth. The iconoclast, not the icon. As his mother said, “Pat would have wanted to be remembered as an individual, not as a stock figure or political prop. Pat was a real hero, not what they used him as.”
If you want to learn about the real Pat Tillman, see “The Tillman Story” or read Mary Tillman’s book “Boots on the Ground by Dusk” (at blurb.com), Jon Krakauer’s book “Where Men Win Glory,” or “Barely a Footnote” — Superbowl XLIII and the NFL’s Betrayal of Pat Tillman” posted at http://www.feralfirefighter.blogspot.com (see June Posts) or "The [Untold] Tillman Story.".
SSGT Co. “F” (Ranger) 425th Infantry 1983 — 1991
Guy Montag
November 16th, 2010 at 11:07 am
“If nothing ever works out all the way, and if all things change, what’s left? Your family and your friends and your values, that’s what’s left. And your duty to them … They’re the only important things in life. … And that the rest of it might change a million times, be called wrong or right or anything else, but you must never violate your loyalty if you wished to survive the judgment of the ages.
— James Webb “A Country Such As This” (1981)
Senator James Webb (D-VA) was at the center of the Democratic Senate's role in continuing the Army & Bush administrations's cover-up of Pat Tillman's friendly-fire death to protect Gen. Stanley McChrystal from scrutiny of his central role in the Army's cover-up of Pat Tillman's friendly-fire death.
Details posted at "Did They Teach You How to Lie Yet?" and "The [Untold] Tillman Story" at http://www.feralfirefighter.blogspot.com
@yeomalt
November 16th, 2010 at 11:25 am
What bothers me most are the lies told about US foreign policy and where military service fits into our culture.
Somewhere after 911- many patriotic Americans seem to have embraced the idea that "The Troops" are fighting to protect our rights and freedoms.
People who question US foreign policy on newspaper websites are told-
"You wouldn't have the freedom to post your nonsense if people were not giving their lives in Iraq and Afghanistan to protect that freedom", etc.
Some will say people in uniform "give" http://www.iwvpa.net/provincecm/ us our freedoms- totally disregarding the concept of inalienable rights.
Others will say we'd be speaking a language or practicing a religion not of our choosing- if not for veterans.
Military service is honorable. In some cases, it provides for our physical security.
In terms of American rights and freedoms- The Dept. of Defense has no more say than the Dept. of Agriculture.
Best thanks for a veteran-
Reach for an honest understanding of US foreign policy.
USMC '79-'99
andy
November 16th, 2010 at 12:25 pm
All of the wars Americans fight are wars of choice. How many vets were killed or wounded fighting on AMERICAN soil? Extremely few.
liberranter
November 16th, 2010 at 5:25 pm
None since the War to Prevent Southern Independence, 1861-1865. Even then the only side of that conflict that could legitimately claim to have died defending their home soil against foreign invasion were the Confederates.
Eric Siverson
November 16th, 2010 at 9:19 pm
NATO NAZI there was no difference in Yugoislavia . They were one and the same to the Orthadox Christians of Serbia . both in the 2 w w and dismemberment of Yugoslavia . Germany attacked Serbia three times in the last century . Yugoslavia never attack anybody in all it yrs of history .
Eric Siverson
November 16th, 2010 at 9:36 pm
wrong the civil war had the most cuasualties of any war by far for americans
Willard D, /Gray
November 16th, 2010 at 10:15 pm
Since that time we have seen, witnessed and endured a retired pay discrimination that varies from 1/3 – double pr more inferior than our successor military retirees.
Medicare did not even exist when I retired. Under the laws of this nation I had “earned” life-time health care for myself and eligible dependents. No!
the ‘80s I received a letter from the Pentagon telling me “On attaining age 65 when no longer subject to recall to active duty and wanting any health care ‘go to Social Security and apply for Medicare part B’” along with the draft-dodger, highly paid civilian and now the “ingrate” highly paid military successors.
Because of other law changes regarding health care I have, since 1968, paid; part, most or currently all of the health care for myself and for my wife of over 61 years. Mary served with General George S. Patton’s Third Army Field Hospital as a captain nurse in France, Germany and Austria. What an Honor for her to have endured this pay discrimination along with me for 46 years and the loss of our health care? TRICARE is a “lemon” in my area.
Willard D. Gray
November 16th, 2010 at 10:21 pm
As one of some 1.8 million length of service military retirees, today, who served this deceitful nation from 20 – 30 or more years on active duty I represent less than .6 of one percent of the total U.S. population. If this nation cannot live up to it’s laws or “promises for those of us who gave it the best years of our live on health care how in the hell can it provide health care for the other 298,200,000 which includes idiots, imbeciles and malingerers?
Inclosed is a letter from the Secretary of Defense which none of you have ever seen. This letter was written by Tricky Dick Nixon and his SoD, Mel R. Laird, in the wake of his presidential campaign in which he pledged, to retirees, that if elected he would correct this “injustice.” This letter was not written by any two bit clerks. While the entire letter is very important I want you to pay particular attention to the last sentence of paragraph four. I’ll comment more on this sentence.
Willard D. Gray
November 16th, 2010 at 10:25 pm
In 1984 there were 1.3 million military retiree costing some $16+ billion dollars that fiscal year
.So to beguile a gullible American public, and, the world, regarding the size of the annual Defense Budget they used Actuarial and CBO rates which determined that if we all died when we should we would cost some $529 billion. They simply transferred this unfunded amount to the Treasury Department and did not send over one penny.
So since 1984 my pay comes from the fools who purchase worthless Treasury notes such as the Brits, Polish, Germans, Somalians, Libyans, Russians, Saudi Arabia and Red China. Now I DON’T ANYONE TO KNOCK Red China. In short I ain’t cost the American taxpayer one penny since 1984 regarding retired pay. Ironic!
Inclosed is a part of the long ArroyoBrief relating to how retired pay is computed today and allotted. Since that date retired pay does not appear as a part of the annual Defense Budget for the public and world to read. Great eh?
Keith
November 18th, 2010 at 8:19 am
I have but one comment. Please continue to challenge the civilian leadership and the decisions for sending our Soldiers, Marines, Sailors and Airmen to war, but please don't make that the focus on Veterans' Day. There is plenty of harsh comments made throughout the year, why use the one day we have to honor our living veterans as a soapbox against them. Veterans' day honors the individual, not the government who sent them.
NAVYwife
November 21st, 2010 at 1:13 pm
who in the military gets paid "quite well"? have you seen the pay scale? my husband is an 05 with a Law Degree, and yes, has a good salary and good benefits, but does not make nearly the amount of $ he could if he worked in the public sector. and he chose to join the NAVY after graduating law school because he wanted to serve his country. not because there was nothing else he could do, or because he was poor and uneducated and wanted to get "out" of the ghetto. and to some of the commentors above—YES we should thank a Veteran. they volunteered to serve their country, unlike you. they obey their Commander in Chief, and go to war when they are ordered to. And they have kept your sorry ass safe here in the US! you're damn right you should thank a veteran——every day, not just on nov. 11.
NAVYwife
November 21st, 2010 at 1:17 pm
thank you!!
KSB29
November 21st, 2010 at 8:06 pm
"Ever seriously consider why you have the right to write such drivel? It might have a lot to do with Veteran's Day and it is as important today as it was in 1919. "
Uh huh, we'd all be speaking German right now if it wasn't for our "brave" men in uniform. The Kaiser was a hairs breath away from riding a U-Boat across the Atlantic and taking DC singled handed. Thank God our heroes saved us by blowing the piss out of Germany and helping set the stage for another world war.
Yes, the US Military had done many great things to protect freedom like using tanks and calvary against the bonus army, Interning innocent Japanese/German/Italian Americans at gun point, shooting students at Kent state, or helping to torch fellow Americans at Waco. Nothing like defending a person's freedom by sticking a bayonet in their back.
I view the US military now the same way a friend viewed the Soviet army during the cold war.
"Me, afraid? Why? Those weapons won't kill a single NATO soldier. Those Russian tanks and Russian bombers are meant to be used against one thing. The Russian people. And every May Moscow trots them out not to frighten the West, but their own people. To remind them this is what they face if they defy the state."